Hi,
I'm Cynthia Lowe,
A Divorce Financial Expert, CPA and mediator who helps women learn how to divorce smart from the start so they can create a life they love.
"The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life; and the procedure, the process is its own reward."
- Amelia Earhart
I'm here from the future to tell you something really important...
Something that could change your life...
and your children's lives forever...
OK, I'm not from the future.... no, I don't have a time machine...
I'm coming to you from your future...
A potential future...
one that I want to HELP you avoid...
One that, if you're not careful...
Could happen you you…
That's why I'm here waiting for you...
So I can HELP you..
Do Divorce...
Smart from the Start..
Peacemaker
About fifteen years ago I shifted my work as a business and tax CPA to what the courts would call a divorce financial expert. Two credentials later and training alongside attorneys ...
Problem Solver
I was working with couples, judges and attorneys, not only as a financial expert but also as a skilled negotiator, trained in mediation and collaborative law practices.
Storyteller
As an accredited business valuator and financial forensic I prepared business valuations of divorcing business owners, cash flow analysis, budgets, alimony and child support calculations and many times found the hidden money and undisclosed assets. Using the numbers to tell their story.
Moments in time...
In life there are "moments in time"...
Moments that separate the different seasons in our life. Some moments are planned.. like graduating from college. Some moments catch us by surprise .. like an unexpected illness or job loss...
Your "moments" become part of how you think. They show up in your conversations. We reference a point in time by saying.. it was two years after your moment... or "that was before ….. another moment..
Moments in time create shifts. Create opportunities to grow.
they impact our lives...
"Moments in time" have impact on your life.
They change you. Some for the better. Some not so much..
These moments create needs for decisions.
They are moments that stretch us. emotionally, spiritually, intellectually and physically.
Think about the relationships in your life. New ones form and old ones end at some of these moments in time.
Hopes and dreams...
Many moments in time are full of hope, dreams and goals...
Think back to your moments. Giving birth. Embarking on a new career...
It started as a thought. Then a decision. A plan. Working the plan.
Remember how amazing it felt?
At this moment in time your future holds countless opportunities...
Moments in time...
Life has a way of teaching us... as we walk through our moments in time...
Sometimes, we don't have the same zeal we had as we once did...
The future of what's possible seems to get shorter and shorter...
We have more experience with what is possible … good and bad.
Potential impact...
I want to encourage you …
Your moments in time going forward have potential impact...
the possibilities are endless...
You're in control...
You decide...
…the story continues...
not the life I envisioned...no rocking chairs reminiscing about " do you remember when?"
but...
We continue to encourage each other via Face time. We focus on the good and not regrets.. if only's will steal your joy in a hot second !
We share our faith and pray for our family and each-other...recognizing that we only have one life.. no do overs..
For me … trusting God, loving people how He wants me to love them... it's not easy... today... I've learned to not ask why... it really is the better way...
Working with divorcing couples my goal has always been to make a difference... so families would not be destroyed by the process. You have no idea how your family may be impacted.
Divorce HELP Connection will make a difference...for our children, our families and our lives. I've been waiting for you...
Click below for help. You don't need to do this alone!
HOPEFUL
As we continue to connect
EMPOWERED
Strong and confident as part of a caring community..
LEARN
Discovering so much more than you ever expected.
PURPOSEFUL
Moving foward with intention as you design your future.